Don’t Get Into A Relationship For The Wrong Reasons

Don’t get into a relationship because you feel pressured. Because you feel like everyone else is already settling down. Because you’re getting older and you don’t want to be alone for the rest of your life.

You still have plenty of time to find the person who is meant for you. You should never rush into a relationship that feels wrong because you’re worried you’re never going to have another chance at love. Regardless of how high or low your self-esteem is at the moment, more than one person is going to love you throughout your lifetime. You’re not confined to this one shot at love.

If this person doesn’t feel right for you, that’s okay. Don’t trick yourself into believing your only choices are to date them or to spend the rest of your life alone. There are plenty of other options out there. This isn’t your only chance to settle down.

Don’t get into a relationship because you feel guilty about turning this other person down. You might hate conflict. You might be a people pleaser. You might feel horrible about rejecting them. But you’re going to hurt them even worse by agreeing to a relationship when you’re not completely interested.

Besides, you need to learn to respect your own feelings. You shouldn’t make them happy by sacrificing your own happiness. You shouldn’t treat them as a priority while pushing your own needs to the back of your mind. You aren’t selfish for making decisions that make you happy. You’re supposed to follow your heart, not their heart.

Don’t get into a relationship with the wrong person because you desperately want to be loved. Because you want to be showered in attention. Because you want someone, anyone, to want you. You need to learn how to give yourself the type of love and validation that you’ve been craving. You need to work on raising your self-worth so you’re not reliant on another person to make you feel valuable.

Besides, even if you got into a relationship with this person, it wouldn’t be enough. You wouldn’t experience the same satisfaction a soulmate would give you. When you’re with the wrong person, you might physically be in a room with someone, but you’re still going to feel lonely. You need to hold out for someone who really speaks to you. You need to remain patient, even though it hurts.

Don’t get into a relationship because you feel pressured to leave the single life behind. It can get tiring watching everyone around you get engaged and married while you’re still searching for what makes you happy. However, you need to remember that everyone moves at a different pace. You’re not behind. You’re not broken. You’re not better or worse than the people who are at a completely different stage of their lives.

You can’t pay attention to timelines because you’re on a different journey than even your closest friends and family. You might reach certain milestones later than you intended, but that doesn’t mean you’re unlovable. Remember, a relationship status doesn’t determine your worth. It doesn’t determine whether you deserve to be happy. TC mark