You refuse to let your partner pay for everything. You want to split the cost.
You refuse to engage in PDA. You like to keep your kisses private.
You refuse to play pretend. You show them your most authentic self from the start.
You refuse to take the same car. You want to be able to leave if you don’t feel any chemistry.
You refuse to make the first move. You want the other person to chase you.
You refuse to do all the talking. You expect your partner to speak as much as they listen.
You refuse to hold anything back. You let yourself come across as vulnerable, even if it scares them away.
You refuse to get too serious. You joke around and don’t tell them anything too deep.
You refuse to get drunk. You want to get to know them sober first.
You refuse to lie. You’re brutally honest, even if it turns them away.
You refuse to go to their place. You want to stay somewhere public.
You refuse to see movies. You want to go somewhere where you’re actually able to talk.