1. You dont desire to go back to being single. You would rather remain in a relationship– any relationship– than be single again. You do not wish to be the only one in your pal group who does not have a partner. And you do not desire to be questioned by every relative about when youre going to calm down. Its simpler to remain in the relationship youve already built than to tell everybody youre single again.
That does not mean that the rest of the relationship is going to go smoothly. You dont want to stay with someone, merely because theyre good in bed. If sex is the only thing keeping you together, you may not belong together.
Leaving would injure your partner– but remaining with them when you arent totally invested in the relationship is going to injure them even more. You do not desire to require yourself to stay in an uneasy scenario. Youre going to leave ultimately, whether its tomorrow or ten years down the line, so you may as well do it now and put them through less pain.
You even like getting hearts on couple pictures you post online. Everybody assumes youre pleased– and you desire it to remain that method. You desire individuals to believe you have your shit together.
Youre not staying with this individual because of how fired up you are to invest permanently alongside them. Youre remaining with them due to the fact that youre excited about the milestones theyre going to assist you reach. You desperately want to check certain items off your bucket list and you feel like theyre not going to get achieved without this individual, so you remain.
6. Everybody else wants you to remain together. This is your life. Nobody else gets to select who you date. Possibly your parents will be disappointed if you break up. Possibly your pals will feel like youre slipping up. It does not matter what they believe. All that matters is whether youre pleased. You need to stop stressing about how a breakup would affect individuals around you and begin asking yourself what you really desire.
7. Youre too comfy to go anywhere. You should not stick with somebody, merely due to the fact that you have a history. Due to the fact that youre utilized to dating them. Since it would be frightening to leave. You should not be together if you dont want to be together. You have no responsibility to stay. Youre permitted to go.
You do not want to go back to being single. And you dont want to be questioned by every relative about when youre going to settle down. You frantically want to examine specific items off your container list and you feel like theyre not going to get accomplished without this individual, so you stay.
Everyone presumes youre pleased– and you desire it to stay that way. You do not desire to stay with somebody, just since theyre great in bed.